It is almost impossible to have a vision for your life if
you have never seen anything. One has to
stand up from the sleepy dream of slumber land and instead dream of a brighter tomorrow
of continuity with a rejuvenated drive in life. The more you dream for a better
future the more you get the passion to do much for yourself and the special
people around you.
Get out of the woods into the streets of adventure, enjoy
and love. One thing that even the bible supports is the act of continuity and
prosperity. Responsibility is key whenever the word family is mentioned.
We work and make enough to live happily after marriage with
our better halves which is certainly good and a perfect dream ending to every
adult but to every man we meet everyday nothing beats having a baby and holding
it in your strong arms.
Many men now confirm that however rich anyone gets in life,
it means less happiness if you can’t hold a daughter or son and proudly say
that “Yes this is my beloved and my blood with whom I am well pleased”. Didn’t
God say so about Jesus Christ?
Most of us can probably share one or two lessons with
Brendon Burchard, the author of Life’s
golden ticket in his saying; “There will be a time when the world needs you
to be courageous, when your friends and family count on you, when your dreams
are on the line, when giving up won’t make sense anymore, when the power of
love begs to break through. That time is now. “
In my own words I believe a father is anyone with the
ability to get a child but it takes real men with real virtues to become dads.
Watch the children in the streets and get the real idea. Most of those kids out
there are not fatherless but they are daddy less if such a word exists. They
obviously have or had someone who was responsible for their coming into being.
The only thing missing is the most important aspect which is a daddy figure.
Science and research ties the love relationship between man
and an offspring as being so tight due to the hormonal link that exists from
the time the man holds his baby for the first time from birth. Logically it
goes beyond reason that any man should not love his son or daughter as nature calls
for. We are animals and from many men out there the strength, courage and drive
that any man can have in life is knowing he has a responsibility in form of a
child to take care of be it blood or otherwise.
We summarily therefore should accept the fact that A child
is man’s best lover. Any man ignoring a child is less in any measure and terms.
Go out there ford, toil, hustle and bustle for that child
you have and be sure to cover the gap and any missing opportunities you may
have lost in your own growing up days. Be the dad and let the young one envy
and look up to you as his role model and inspiration.
“If I had the world today I would give it up for my future,
my pride, my child.”
A Daddy is a baby’s real father.
Photos by: Michael Mechen and Baby Hawi Mechen- Southampton England
: Barry Ojijo and Baby Imani Muga Ojijo- Nairobi Kenya.
: Roosevelt Benard and Baby Gifty Roosevelt- Dar es Salaam Tanzania.
: Khalid Hanif and Baby Nafisa Hanif- Dar es Salaam Tanzania.
Published By Benard Roosevelt for PAREE INT'L PRODUCTIONS. Dar es salaam Tanzania.
Roosevelt this is just BRILLIANT !!!!! was just taking a peak on a busy day to cool off my mind I breaee over your blog once in a while to cool off on a busy day The pictures in this article instantly caught my attention DOUBLE WOW whoa :-) They are worth a MILLION words! Honestly I do not know how you do it . I guess passion personfied. anyway i need more time to savour these daddy stories BRB ..So on my TRL ..to give a more indepth feedback. So COOOL
ReplyDeletePauline Okech always welcome. We do what we can to inspire the society and with every story and article I publish here, I just can't get the right words to use in thanking those who have assisted me in one way or the other to contribute to the success of these articles. I AM HUMBLED.
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